Information for Partners
experience difficulties reaching orgasm with a lover for many reasons.
Following are some of the more common ones.
You're too busy in your head -- thinking
about how aroused you are or aren't, what your partner thinks of you,
whether s/he can keep the movement going, etc. You think too much,
instead of focusing on the sensations of what's going on sexually.
You may be afraid that you won't orgasm. So
you don't even bother trying and end up completely repressing your
You're afraid of seeming demanding by
asking too much of your partner (that is, asking to be stimulated the
way you like it, and the way you know it works).