Some women are
capable of being stimulated to orgasm again before their resolution phase
is complete. While most men need a resting (or refractory) period after
orgasm, some women can keep going! Other women feel complete after
one orgasm and are not interested in seconds or thirds. A woman's ability
to be multi-orgasmic may also depend on the circumstances of a particular
sexual encounter (Is she comfortable with her partner? Does she have
enough energy to have more than one? Is the technique working for her?
What's important is not the number of orgasms,
but a woman's own orgasmic pattern and her satisfaction with it. Some
women reach orgasm quickly, others more slowly. Many have one strong
orgasm, others have many mild ones. And there are a million variations in
between. For some women, the first orgasm is the strongest and the rest
are milder; for others, it's just the opposite. What really matters is
that there is not a whole lot of time spent comparing, but instead that
each woman is comfortable with the way her body responds.
Because everyone is so different, it is also
unrealistic to expect simultaneous orgasms. If it happens, great. But
don't put pressure on yourself or your partner if it doesn't. All that is
really important is that you both enjoy yourselves!